Essential Advice for Separation or Divorce

Navigating separation or divorce can be especially challenging during the holidays. However, this period of change also presents an opportunity to redefine your life on your own terms. Consider making these ten powerful resolutions for 2016 to pave the way towards happiness and prosperity. Whether you choose to adopt all or some of these resolutions, they can serve as a guiding light during this transformative time.

1. Complete Your Divorce: If you’ve been delaying the divorce process, clarify whether both parties are committed to proceeding. Honor your ex-partner’s decision and finalize any remaining paperwork to begin the new year with a fresh start.
2. Choose Your Battles Wisely: Avoid using legal proceedings to resolve emotional disputes with your ex-spouse. Seek support from a counselor or trusted friend to work through emotional issues more effectively.
3. Update Legal Documents: Revise your will, trusts, insurance policies, and estate plans as needed. Designate new beneficiaries and powers of attorney to reflect your current circumstances.
4. Seek Financial Guidance: Consult with a financial advisor specializing in divorce to receive objective advice on achieving your financial goals post-divorce.
5. Prioritize Children’s Well-being: Refrain from speaking negatively about your ex-partner in front of your children. Encourage a healthy relationship between them and their other parent.
6. Maintain Contact and Support: Ensure regular contact and timely child support payments to foster stability and happiness for your children.
7. Cooperate as Co-Parents: Be flexible with visitation schedules and support each other’s presence at significant events in your children’s lives.
8. Embrace Regular Exercise: Incorporate regular exercise into your routine to alleviate stress and enhance your well-being during this challenging time.
9. Practice Forgiveness: Forgive your ex-partner and yourself to release emotional burdens and move forward positively.
10. Forgive Yourself: Accept that relationships involve two people, and forgive yourself for any role you played in the breakdown of your marriage. Learn from past mistakes and focus on personal growth.

Taking these steps can empower you to navigate separation or divorce with resilience and grace. Our team of family law solicitors is here to support you through this journey and provide the guidance you need to start afresh in the new year.

 

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